Empathy. Walking in someone else’s shoes. Taking a peek at the world from another point of view. It’s a lesson parents begin teaching early because we know it can make both people feel better about exactly where they stand — and more thoroughly value each other. This...
Have you heard of hygge? Unless someone in your household is a bit Frozen-obsessed, for most Oregonians the likely answer is “no.” But it is a way of life that has been ubiquitous in Denmark since at least the 1950s. What is it? Essentially, it’s a concept that...
In the grand scheme of things, household chores are a very small thing. So how, then, is this a topic that so frequently makes it to the couples therapy couch? Here’s some important relationship advice. What initially presents as frustration or disappointment...
If you and your partner have been following social distance protocols like many of us, chances are you’re running out of ideas for how to keep things interesting with each other. You need relationship advice for COVID-19. What may not have crossed your mind is that...
Relationship maintenance? Really? Nothing valuable maintains itself. Your house. Car. Investments. All of them must be maintained well to protect their value over years. Marriages are no different. If you want yours to “run smoothly,” you absolutely have to engage in...
Presence May Be More Valuable Than Presents This Holiday Season The holiday season is here! Have you finalized your plans yet? Made gift lists? Started to budget? Before you go hog wild on spending — or spiral as you panic over how in the world you’ll afford...
“You spend so much money. Do you think it grows on trees?” “You don’t do any of your chores. You just expect me to clean up after you.” “You are always working. Your work matters more to you than your family.” Sound familiar? Conflicts surrounding money, housework,...
Imagine your partner confronts you. The house is a mess, and they feel like they’re the one trying to keep things together. Now, your initial internal reaction is probably to feel offended and start creating a mental list of all the things you do. One thing you almost...
Planning for the Holidays During the Pandemic Are you starting to discuss how to navigate the holidays during the pandemic? Is it bringing up disagreements, disappointments, stress, and strain? Holidays can be contentious even in normal times. And this is far from...
The COVID-19 pandemic and its resultant fallouts — economic hardships, lack of childcare, loneliness, political uncertainty, environmental concerns, just to name a few — have been stressful for everyone. And marriage during the pandemic can be more difficult, too....
Empathy. Walking in someone else’s shoes. Taking a peek at the world from another point of view. It’s a lesson parents begin teaching early because we know it can make both people feel better about exactly where they stand — and more thoroughly value each other. This...
Have you heard of hygge? Unless someone in your household is a bit Frozen-obsessed, for most Oregonians the likely answer is “no.” But it is a way of life that has been ubiquitous in Denmark since at least the 1950s. What is it? Essentially, it’s a concept that...
In the grand scheme of things, household chores are a very small thing. So how, then, is this a topic that so frequently makes it to the couples therapy couch? Here’s some important relationship advice. What initially presents as frustration or disappointment...
If you and your partner have been following social distance protocols like many of us, chances are you’re running out of ideas for how to keep things interesting with each other. You need relationship advice for COVID-19. What may not have crossed your mind is that...
Relationship maintenance? Really? Nothing valuable maintains itself. Your house. Car. Investments. All of them must be maintained well to protect their value over years. Marriages are no different. If you want yours to “run smoothly,” you absolutely have to engage in...
Presence May Be More Valuable Than Presents This Holiday Season The holiday season is here! Have you finalized your plans yet? Made gift lists? Started to budget? Before you go hog wild on spending — or spiral as you panic over how in the world you’ll afford...
“You spend so much money. Do you think it grows on trees?” “You don’t do any of your chores. You just expect me to clean up after you.” “You are always working. Your work matters more to you than your family.” Sound familiar? Conflicts surrounding money, housework,...
Imagine your partner confronts you. The house is a mess, and they feel like they’re the one trying to keep things together. Now, your initial internal reaction is probably to feel offended and start creating a mental list of all the things you do. One thing you almost...
The COVID-19 pandemic and its resultant fallouts — economic hardships, lack of childcare, loneliness, political uncertainty, environmental concerns, just to name a few — have been stressful for everyone. And marriage during the pandemic can be more difficult, too....